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• wais777
  
  

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  Posted: Jan 31, 2008 - 09:40 PM

  Salam all,
  
  I shall be very happy to see our members participating to this topic.Please give your thoughts and opinions.
  
  Omid ka ba EEE sawal hama member ha wa dost ha sam bigerand.Feker mekonom ka Topic momken dilchasp khad shud agar betanem ka nazaer khud ra
  ar yak chand sateri benawesem.
  
  Examples:
  
  1. Chi gona famil metawana ka jawan emrozi ra motawaji eshtaba wa saow OOO shacht?
  2. Famil bayet kodom ra rah ba pesh bigira?
  3. Yak Jawan bayet chi cheez ha ra mad nazar bigera ka na khud ra awgar kona wa nafamil ra ?
  4. Yak jawan ba kei moshkel khud ra ahl kona?
  5. Dar Gharb wa America jawan ba kodom meshkel ha ro ba ro wa sar dochar astan? wa rai hal han chi khad bod?
  
  If i am missing something feel free to add into it.
  
  Best Regards,
  Wais
  

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• Butterfly
  
  

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  Posted: Feb 01, 2008 - 03:17 PM

  Indeed it's a very intressting topic.
  I really didn't understand what u really want to know..but I'm going to answer what I have understood.
  answer nr. 1: famil ha bayad hamesha az tofilyat tefil hayee khod ra khob parwaresh konand, yani kha rai rast wa drost ra bareshan neshan betan. culture afghani ra bareshan beyamozan etc.
  Azadi bershan betan lekin dakhil chawkat (they children should know there limits). agar yak mother wa padar dar ien wazifa khod kamyab shodan ech waqt tefil shan ki jawan ast bershan janjal/ preshani ha khalq khad nakard.
  
  answer nr. 2: famil na bayad zyad sakht geer bashan wa na zyad azad. wa agar awlad eshan yak eshta mekonand bar awal maaf eshan konad, chon eshta kar insani ast.
  
  answer nr. 3: Ihtram ba bozorg ha (respect) wa nezakat ha ra.
  
  answer nr. 4: behtareen dost insaan mother wa pader adam ast..sometimes they thing a bit oldish..baz try to solve ur probleems with your best friend who u trust. Lekin behtarien dost kitab ast.
  
  answer nr. 5: jawan ha dar amerika ra namidanum, lekin dar europa mushkil eshan ien ast ki dar bayeen do culture bayad zindagi konand..outside; western culture inside eastern culture..bayd outside feker konanand ki afghan ast..ar chi dar culture ma nest..wa inside majboor culture afghanistan ra qabool konand, dar hali ki tamam roz dar school/work they learn to /they stay with western culture.
  
  this was my opinions, now I'm curious about yours opinions.
  
  
  
  

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• Muslima
  
  

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  Posted: Feb 02, 2008 - 02:16 PM

  Besyar topic jaleb ast
  khob ma hamnazar hastom ba Butter jan chizi ka goftan, ama dar qesmate sawal panjom(5) jawan ha dar gharb dochare moshkilate zeyad meshawan ka bayad ba famil hai khod dar meyan begzaran wa hal moshkile khod ra az mother wa padare khod bejoyan.
  Famil ha bayad izafa waqte khoda ba awalad hai shan begzaranan wa az en ham bakhabar bashan ka dost hai ka awlad hai shan daran ke ha hastan wa aaya dost hai khob astan ya bad, chon dost bad metana ka yak jawan ra dar rahe bad bekashan wa maa afghan ha yak zarbul masal ham darem ka megan
  با ما نشينی ما شوی، با ديگ نشينی سياه شوی
  
  Hame bod nazare banda :-)
  
  

  زندگی اجبار است مرگ اخطار است دوستی فقط یکبار است اما جدایی بسیار است

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• Butterfly
  
  

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  Posted: Feb 02, 2008 - 08:10 PM

  I agree with you muslima jani..and children should be honest.
  
  

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• wais777
  
  

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  Posted: Jul 21, 2008 - 06:43 PM

  All,
  
  I`ll be glad to hear thoughts of my dear afghans concerning this topic.
  
  Regards,
  Wais ;-)

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• YALDI
  
  

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  Posted: Jul 21, 2008 - 10:30 PM

  Salamzz All. Butter jan Zyad khob naweshtan, Afarin ;).. Hmm wali en jawan haye emroz ra fahmedan assan nest, ma khodam ba en jawan ha kar mekonam, anqader moshkil darand ka zyad waqt ra megerad ka banwesam, well en moshkil az jawan ha ney bal-ka az family ha mibashad.. qasme ka Butter jan naweshta
  (5) jawan ha dar gharb dochare moshkilate zeyad meshawan ka bayad ba famil hai khod dar meyan begzaran wa hal moshkile khod ra az mother wa padare khod bejoyan Moshkil en jawan ha en ast ka moshkelat khod ra ba famil khod dar mayen namigozarand. Chora!! mother ha wa pader hay ka chand sal mesha europa/usa astan zyad ba zaban wa jama ashanay nadarand wa jawan ha mitanad en ra bafamand ka az famil kodam komak nameshand, wa bar khalaf famil Intazary zayd az awald hay shan darand, ka moshkil tareen dars, ka (Dr, Wakeel..) shawand wali che qader en famil mitana komak konad, en ra feker namikonand...
  1. Chi gona famil metawana ka jawan emrozi ra motawaji eshtaba wa saow OOO shacht?
  A: Famil ha peshe en ka motawaje eshtaba wa sawo jawan ha shawand, khod ra komak konadnad, ta batanand jawan ha ra motawaje ashtabaht shan konand,( jawab sawal ha ra dashta bashand, dar tasmem khod mahkam bashand wa az logic khod hamesha kar begarand) Khwast jawan hay emroz zyad ast, wa waqte famil namitana ka en khwast ha ra mokamal konad jawan az famil dory mekonad, qasme ka peshtar ham naweshtam famil ha aga mikhwand ka ba jawan ha/ awald hay shan komak konand bayed zyad ba jama ashnay payda koanad, moshkelaty khod ra khoday shan hal konanad, az jawan ha zyad en tawaqo ra nadashta bashand,.. Hmm well ba falan bas ast, ka kase ka hawsela karda wa khwanda khasta nasha, Baqe ba roz ayenda ;)
  
  

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• Omeri
  
  

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  Posted: Jul 22, 2008 - 07:21 AM

  :-) ماشاالله چی خوب اعضای پرحرف داره ای سایت!!!!؟
  منظورم اینست که نام خدا جوانانی مستعدی گردهم آمده اند و چیزی برای گفتن دارند.4
  
  

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• Butterfly
  
  

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  Posted: Jul 22, 2008 - 02:28 PM

  @ wais jan; I'm curious about your opinion, because you are our elder and wiser brother.
  
  @ Yaldi jan, Thanks dega, I know ke jawan ha emrooz ra danestan asan nest..chon ke mesli puzzle astan. Sometimes very complicated. Akhir ma ham yak waqt jawan bodam lol :lol:
  
  Asaln famil ha bayad zyad tawaqoo nadashta bashan, ke bachem you should become a doctor/ingenier etc etc..bakhateri ke yak tefil amo estidad ra dara yaki nee..wa yak nafar alaqa dara ba doctor shodan yaki nee..offcourse bayad tefil khod ra tashweq konand, be parwa nabash dar mawreed-e tahsil eshan...lekin zyad tarif wa push kardan ham dewana mesaza tefil ra. Kami majboor sakhatan khob ast..bakhateri ki jamwan ha bayad az amien possibality ke daran estifada konan agarnee ahmaq astan. :lol: megan..naborda rang ganj meyasar namishawad..they should study hard..then laters they wil have an nice life, with good job..good job earns good and gives them respected position in society. wa hama ien factors besyaar impact dara ba rawabet famili.
  
  @ Omeri jan,tasharkor, dera manana..ur in good site..ur right :-)
  
  

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• YALDI
  
  

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  Posted: Jul 23, 2008 - 09:55 PM

  ماشاالله چی خوب اعضای پرحرف داره ای سایت!!!!؟
  منظورم اینست که نام خدا جوانانی مستعدی گردهم آمده اند و چیزی برای گفتن دارند
  
  :lachen:
  
  

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• Omeri
  
  

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  Posted: Jul 24, 2008 - 06:21 AM

  Namifamom Yaldi Jan chera az Khanda Khanda GORDA KAFAK shoda. mara ham az khanda hayesh khanda migira ha ha hah haaaaa.Jaleb bod ni????
  
  

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• YALDI
  
  

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  Posted: Jul 26, 2008 - 12:58 AM

  Wee chotor Doshmane jane ma astee Allha Aga GORDA KAFAk meshodam halii Rohaem dar Assman ha bod... well khair :schildbacktotopic:
  
  

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• Omeri
  
  

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  Posted: Jul 27, 2008 - 09:51 AM

  OO ra kho chi mikoni, Mara ham az khada khand nazdik as Gorda kafak koni!!! ha ha h ah chi ch cheee pic Jalebi!! ha ha ha
  Kho rast bogo eee aks az jawanit as ya.... :lol:
  Chadaree Sabz ha ha h ahahah Mordom az khanda......ai khoda!! koshti mara kati azi pic maqboolet. hosh ko ke Roi bandita bala nakoni aga ni tamame team site ra zara kafak mikoni. hosh kada bashi hosh kada bashi.....ha ha h ah

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• YALDI
  
  

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  Posted: Jul 27, 2008 - 01:42 PM

  TA AW DA JORHAT CHE ZA-MA PÅ CHADERY BANDEE KHANDEE???
  
  aHaHaH WELL EN CHADERY_DOLAQ AST WA AZ JAWANE HYAEM AST...aZ EN KARDA RANGEE MAQBUL DAR DONIA YAFT MESHA?? kHO KHAIR KHODAT JAWANAKK EMROZ CHE DANEE... :snooty:
  
  

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